Every spring the club is so busy and caught up with doing seminars, especially self defense seminars.
This year for the public class at the dojang I partnered with Ms. Ruth Lewinski of McCall Judo teamed up to bring a really well rounded perspective to the self defense mat. There had so much positive feedback for the class and so much interest. We prepped for the biggest class the spring seminar had ever seen. Then, the first night, Jayme came in with a bubbling mix of enthusiasm and anticipation. We chatted, got comfortable and waited, but it was just going to be Jayme. We were able to cover so much content that first night it was amazing. What was even more impressive was seeing that energy in Jayme evolve throughout the class. From anxious and quiet upset (but still composed), to strength and confidence.
We continued through all of the sessions and at the end checked in with Jayme about her experience and then with each other.
I have the benefit of knowing Jayme off the mat and know her to be a very strong and independent woman who is highly driven. Though it is not the first time this class has seen a confident person enter the seminar and waiver, it is always interesting to me and reminds me how important this is. More importantly how imperative it is for the instructors be attune to their students and help guide them so they can channel their own anxieties and chaotic energy into a powerful inner strength. The student has to take that journey but the instructor is charged with ensuring the student is safe in this space and can make this transition without breaking. Jayme never would have broken but seeing how fast she adapted was awesome. She acknowledged that as well as the physical challenges she endured. Her reflections were so positive, it was inspiring.
It can seem that only having one student would be a deterrent to providing future classes. This could not be further from the truth. Knowing that even just ONE more person is empowered in our community is incredibly rewarding. She will pass that spirit onto all of those around her and her positive experience will encourage others to embrace the challenge. For Jayme, what an amazing opportunity to work through many extra scenarios and get more practice where she wanted it. It was a win-win for all of us.
Teaching these classes should not be about monetary gain alone. Sure, it would be great to get rich and empower a community but that is not always the case. What it should truly be about is the outcome and benefit to community receives from this seminar. By lifting those around us, even if it is one-by-one, we all will grow and prosper in spirit, body, and eventually in the wallet.
Ms. Lewinski and I had such a great time. We had never had the opportunity to practice together or really get to know each other. She is such an inspiring and strong young woman. Getting to share this time with her meant so much to me. In martial arts it can be rare to work with another passionate and talented woman, having that chance in a positive space is priceless. This now friendship built on respect is unbreakable. I know together and apart we are going to make a real difference in this world.
~Master Staup